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The MySpace Sex Offender Saga

MySpace discovered 29,000 registered sex offenders on its service and has deleted them. This is every parent's worst fear about the service -- that it is teeming with predators looking to make contact with the kids and teens who have profiles. The good news is that MySpace has been working with law enforcement to discover these sex offenders and is deleting them. Of course, that's assuming these adults in the registry are all actually predators. The other piece of good news is that most teens on the site view any contact from an adult stranger that is sexual in nature as spam. Unfortunately, commercial spam is all over MySpace -- I deleted around 10 MySpace spam messages from my profile this week.

There are teens on MySpace who are at-risk and vulnerable to interacting with predators. The challenge is identifying teens who are most likely to engage in sexual communication with adult strangers. The ones who have already been hurt, who are seeking that sort of adult approval and validation, who are having problems at home, who aren't talking to mom and dad. It can't hurt to reiterate the "be safe" message to your own teens even though you'll most likely get an "I know, Mom" with a classic teenage eye roll.

The history, size and design of MySpace has made it more open to predators and commercial spam in general. It has always been a public site anyone can access. And because its early users were L.A. musicians/artists, it has also always had a more "adult" and alternative feel to it. It's like the Village Voice of social networking with all the racy ads included. The combination of spam and adult scrutiny is already driving teens off the service so it's worth asking your teen if they still use MySpace regularly or if they're "over it."

How do you take this news as a concerned parent, especially if your teen is an active MySpace user?

1). Don't panic. Read the headline, then read what MySpace is doing about it. Just as sex offenders or predators will be drawn to playgrounds or other spaces young people hang out in, it would make sense they would be drawn to a site like MySpace.

2) Talk to your teen. Share the headline, and tell them you're just checking in to make sure they're profile is either private, i.e. just for friends, or if it's public, that it doesn't include too much personal information (see my post on identity theft). Then try an "I'm sure you already do this, but if any adult or stranger contacts you and says anything sexual in nature, I want to make sure you block them and report their profile to MySpace."

3) Remember that MySpace is not for kids or young teens. If you have tweens (under 14) who want to be on a social networking site, steer them towards sites like Imbee (or check out the list of tween sites listed on the right hand side of Ypulse).

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Comments

Hi Anastasia,

Thanks for the mention.

I just wanted to add that imbee.com was really the first social network to address safety right up front. We authenticate our members, we offer a built in parental dash board, we keep our kids personal information private and finally kids only publish to their approved circle of friends. None of the other social networks including MySpace, were ever intended to support members under the age of 13. Therefore they never anticipated the need for member safety/security like we have at imbee.com. We think that imbee.com provides an excellent middle ground for kids and their parents. Kids get all the cool media features one would find on MySpace, Bebo, Xanga or others. While parents get complete peace of mind because they have the controls and insight they demand.

Tim D
Founder, imbee

Anastasia, I'm reading TOTALLY WIRED. Just want to add that www.Yomod.com combines age-appropriate user generated videos with secure social networking. We authenticate our members, we moderate all content submissions, we keep our kids personal information private and kids can only comment on approved "buddy" profiles.

Brian, Yomod co-founder